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| Finally, everything was panned out. Photo credit: PBB Official Website |
Let’s face it, life is full of
awkward (dreadful, even) moments. It’s up to us how we deal with them. It’s not
easy, but these challenges make us better individuals. That is if we come out
alive from them. But hey! God doesn’t give us something we won’t be able to
handle. Heads up. There’s always an end to a tunnel. Unless it’s closed for
renovations then you have a big problem.
#Assumera
It’s never a good thing to
assume, especially when it comes to relationships. If you’re left to assume the
specifics of your relationship then you’re in trouble. Everything should be
laid down through proper communication. Many relationships have gone down in
flames because both parties didn’t bother to bridge the communication gap. Always
be clear on what you want out of a relationship.
#NoSecrets
Haven’t you learned anything from
Philippines telenovelas and movies, and in real life? There is no such thing as
a secret. Well, you can probably keep it for some time, but never for eternity.
In truth, a secret is supposed to be broadcasted, not hidden. The best way to
avoid dirty secrets? Be honest. Be upfront. However cliché this may sound,
honesty is still the best policy.
#Okay
With this show I attach okay with
lying. Whenever somebody says “I’m okay” he or she is definitely lying. Please,
stop saying that you’re okay when we both know that you’re not. I won’t think
less of you if you’re not okay. What will make me think less of you is if you
lie straight to my face. And that’s also not healthy. You’re putting too much
stress on your mind, body, and soul. You’re not a superhero, okay?
#LikeAMan
It takes nothing to make a
mistake, but it takes a man to face the consequences of those mistakes. Everyone
has their inevitable right to be stupid every once in a while. Nobody is
perfect, they say. The important thing is to learn from these shortcomings. And
by learn I mean you carry those lessons until your dying day. There’s no point in
saying sorry; in asking for forgiveness if you won’t learn from them.
#DoWhatYouThinkIsRight
The right thing is a subjective
thing. Everybody has their own concept of what is acceptable and detestable. No
manual can tell you the exact right thing you should do. You have to trust your
own set of principles and your instinct. There will be people who will critic
you for your decisions, but never heed them. If after your decision you can
still sleep soundly at night then you did the right thing.